Saturday, August 7, 2010

NO Titles??? U TRIPPING!


Yo FOLKS!
Aight...
This Post is about people who try to gives as to
why not having titles in their relationship should not exist!

LOOK IF YOU WANT TO NOT HAVE A TITLE SO BE IT!
BUT DON'T THINK THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS THE BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE's!

Title's are only as big as you make it... meaning...
People have issues and insecurities.

Boyfriend and Girlfriend Titles make it clear for Courtship and a time to test out your loyalty!
If you know you can't handle being in a relationship...THEN DON'T!!!!
Honestly why do people let others control them???
What happen to self-respect!?
You want to be out there dating... Then do so?
If you want to have sex... No that RARELY strings are not attached!!!
LETS GET IT TOGETHER!!!
No titles seems FISHY!!!
If your insignificant other does not want a title MAN-UP or BE A WOMAN and tell them TO GET THE HELL OUT OF YOUR FACE WITH THAT SHIT!!!!
For Real!!! Don't agree to Dumb Shit!!!
In the end you gonna be hurt!!
If you are not in a relationship, then don't you think it gives them room to cheat and have fun, while you trying to prove to them you are loyal!....
Are you kidding me????
SMH!!!!

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

RUNNN! Its the "Fat Shirt SYNDROME!!!"


HEY FOLKS!
Okay is it just me or has anyone ever had the "Fat Shirt Syndrome?"
Well I sometimes have the "Fat Shirt Syndrome!" SMH!
Wait, before you all take Jabs at me about being Delusional and in Denial!
LET Me first say that the "FAT SHIRT SYNDROME" does exist!
What?... You never heard of it?
Well let me explain!
And After I explain what it is , I will explain to you how it affects people of all sizes!

Ok...
Don't you all know about that T-Shirt or Button-Up we all have that just makes our body look perfect.
Every time you rock that type of shirt you get compliments like, "looking good" or "did you lose some weight?" or "Someones been working out"!
OH HOW I LOVE THOSE COMPLIMENTS!!!!
And from the same mouths choose a less flattering shirt and hear "Someone's been eating late" or " Are you pregnant?" or "Can I rub Your Buddha-belly?"
"You Mother" is usually how I respond to those comments!

But Fat Shirt Syndrome is having any type of clothing that just makes your body look bulky and awkward. You probably was rushing in the store and never tried it on or just like the color scheme, but when you wore it a whole bunch of insecurities entered you and you are constantly adjusting it to try to appease the appearance of it on you.

We try to reserve Fat Shirts for our house clothes because usually they are much comfortable, but most times we find ourselves running out the house on an errand in them and receive horrible comments from all the people who know you! SMH!

We need to go shopping folks and take our times... MY NAKED BODY AIN'T FAT!!!!
It's that DAMN SHIRT!!!! GOSH!

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Forgive, But Not Brought Up!


What it Dizzle Shizzles?
Aight here we go!
So I have been giving speeches about True Forgiveness.
I use to define forgiveness as feeling and taking a deep breath.
I related forgiveness to feeling as if a burden was taken away from me.
I related it to the soothing feeling after holding your breath for a long time.
I never really felt that that was what forgiveness.
I have been searching & searching for what is FORGIVENESS...

AND NOW I KNOW!!!!!
FEAST YOUR EYES FOLKS!

Forgiveness comes within...
To Forgive someone is to give them another chance, a clean-slate!
I have had a few people in my life I needed to forgive me and I needed to forgive them and sometimes I would wait for them to give in... But That is not MATURITY at all!

To "Forgive & Forget" is not HUMANELY possible.
We can't force ourselves to forget major issues in our lives'.
We must learn to forgive the people for what they have done and NEVER bring up the issues to the person we forgive.
Even if the person repeats the same issue up again.
TRUE, REAL TRUE FORGIVENESS is to give a clean slate and as much as you remember it, to NEVER bring up that topic again.

You must not Forget, in order to not end up in that situation from which the person needed to be forgiven, but you must remember to know how to deal with the situation.

Forgiveness is REAL and takes time! We MUST TRAIN ourselves to use this gift!
Goodnite!

Cody Chesnutt