YIKES!!! I need a BREAK!

Okay My BAD!!!!

I have been M.I.A...

It's been kinda BUSY BUSY BUSY around me!!!

Ok... I have been so OVERWHELMED!!!!
You know, the "Yes SYNDROME!" YUP!

I have been affected by it!

It has been a bit difficult to use!!!

Every time I turn around my phone has been ringing OFF OF THE HOOK!

I have no time to myself!

Seriously!

I have decided to put my phone on a permanent SILENCE until! FRIDAY!

I really don'worry about my well t want to be bothered with anyone!

I mean I will still be on my Twitter game but... I need "ME-TIME"

I Need to stay focused in my last final year of school & get my life together!

I am Spiritually-Weak & Physically-slacking!

My cardio-game is on point, but my eating habits are out of control!

I need a Balance...

We all need to pull back whenever we feel overwhelmed...

I am honestly am not trying to hurt my friends or make it seem like I am DONE with them, but I am not a damn clown... I need to relax!

And worry about my well-being...

Thanks for being understanding...

Peace

NO Titles??? U TRIPPING!

Yo FOLKS!

Aight...

This Post is about people who try to gives as to

why not having titles in their relationship should not exist!

LOOK IF YOU WANT TO NOT HAVE A TITLE SO BE IT!

BUT DON'T THINK THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS THE BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE's!

Title's are only as big as you make it... meaning...

People have issues and insecurities.

Boyfriend and Girlfriend Titles make it clear for Courtship and a time to test out your loyalty!

If you know you can't handle being in a relationship...THEN DON'T!!!!

Honestly why do people let others control them???

What happen to self-respect!?

You want to be out there dating... Then do so?

If you want to have sex... No that RARELY strings are not attached!!!

LETS GET IT TOGETHER!!!

No titles seems FISHY!!!

If your insignificant other does not want a title MAN-UP or BE A WOMAN and tell them TO GET THE HELL OUT OF YOUR FACE WITH THAT SHIT!!!!

For Real!!! Don't agree to Dumb Shit!!!

In the end you gonna be hurt!!

If you are not in a relationship, then don't you think it gives them room to cheat and have fun, while you trying to prove to them you are loyal!....

Are you kidding me????

SMH!!!!

RUNNN! Its the "Fat Shirt SYNDROME!!!"

HEY FOLKS!

Okay is it just me or has anyone ever had the "Fat Shirt Syndrome?"

Well I sometimes have the "Fat Shirt Syndrome!" SMH!

Wait, before you all take Jabs at me about being Delusional and in Denial!

LET Me first say that the "FAT SHIRT SYNDROME" does exist!

What?... You never heard of it?

Well let me explain!

And After I explain what it is , I will explain to you how it affects people of all sizes!

Ok...

Don't you all know about that T-Shirt or Button-Up we all have that just makes our body look perfect.

Every time you rock that type of shirt you get compliments like, "looking good" or "did you lose some weight?" or "Someones been working out"!

OH HOW I LOVE THOSE COMPLIMENTS!!!!

And from the same mouths choose a less flattering shirt and hear "Someone's been eating late" or " Are you pregnant?" or "Can I rub Your Buddha-belly?"

"You Mother" is usually how I respond to those comments!

But Fat Shirt Syndrome is having any type of clothing that just makes your body look bulky and awkward. You probably was rushing in the store and never tried it on or just like the color scheme, but when you wore it a whole bunch of insecurities entered you and you are constantly adjusting it to try to appease the appearance of it on you.

We try to reserve Fat Shirts for our house clothes because usually they are much comfortable, but most times we find ourselves running out the house on an errand in them and receive horrible comments from all the people who know you! SMH!

We need to go shopping folks and take our times... MY NAKED BODY AIN'T FAT!!!!

It's that DAMN SHIRT!!!! GOSH!

Forgive, But Not Brought Up!

What it Dizzle Shizzles?

Aight here we go!

So I have been giving speeches about True Forgiveness.

I use to define forgiveness as feeling and taking a deep breath.

I related forgiveness to feeling as if a burden was taken away from me.

I related it to the soothing feeling after holding your breath for a long time.

I never really felt that that was what forgiveness.

I have been searching & searching for what is FORGIVENESS...

AND NOW I KNOW!!!!!

FEAST YOUR EYES FOLKS!

Forgiveness comes within...

To Forgive someone is to give them another chance, a clean-slate!

I have had a few people in my life I needed to forgive me and I needed to forgive them and sometimes I would wait for them to give in... But That is not MATURITY at all!

To "Forgive & Forget" is not HUMANELY possible.

We can't force ourselves to forget major issues in our lives'.

We must learn to forgive the people for what they have done and NEVER bring up the issues to the person we forgive.

Even if the person repeats the same issue up again.

TRUE, REAL TRUE FORGIVENESS is to give a clean slate and as much as you remember it, to NEVER bring up that topic again.

You must not Forget, in order to not end up in that situation from which the person needed to be forgiven, but you must remember to know how to deal with the situation.

Forgiveness is REAL and takes time! We MUST TRAIN ourselves to use this gift!

Goodnite!

Women, Do you really know your worth?

Whats up?

I have been keeping my blog focused on Me ONLY!

And I would like to change it up...

I am a very insightful person and I would like to share some discussion my Friends and I have on the daily basis!

I think this will help me keep up with Updating My ISH!

Alrite Here we go?

I have noticed that many of my Female Friends go-out with SUCKERS, LAMES, LOSERS to the "T"!!!!!!!!!!!

SMH!

& then they claim they are in LOVE with them!!!!

My thing is...

You can Love who you want to LOVE...

But at the same time Women should know their WORTH.

Not Be in a relationship because all their friend or Frenemies are in relationships... STOP RUSHING INTO TEMPORARY RELATIONS!

For example, Majority of the ppl I Hang with are the most creative, intelligent and driven folks ever!

I love my group of friends!

The females with that group are all worth having high standards with choosing the right guys, but usually never do.

I feel like women don't know their worth!

They deserve someone that is Educated, with common sense, that APPRECIATES them. yet they seem to find the players and lame folks all the time!!!

Then complain about dating the same type of LOSERS!

PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT:

IF YOU FEEL YOU ARE NOT MAKING ANY PROGRESS WHEN IT COMES TO THE FOLKS YOU DATE...Which could be partying, bowling, movies, etc....

THEN YOU MUST SWITCH UP THE PLACES YOU FREQUENT! DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Seriously...How about look in the library, starbucks, or the place of business you would want to date someone at... For example: If you want to date a guy that is consistent with a good job, maybe you should wait for the garbage men to come in the morning before you take the trash out to see if you can holla at someone or go to little businesses such as a local bank or supermarket to see if they are any TAKERS!..

SERIOUSLY!

Women Stop settling for anything and stop waiting for ppl to come to you, cuz you might attract the LAMES!... Go search and be PROUD!

THE END!

Eat that BOOK!

HOLA!

Yup! I am still here!

Time just seems to fly!

Time and I have never really gotten along!

But w/e!

I'm here now!

So... Unfortunately! I am in college for the summer

Not the whole summer but Summer-ONE.

It's the Summer that occurs like 2 or 3 weeks after spring semester ends!

Well that how it is at my school!

So yeah... I am taking 2 courses! YEESH!

One about the Middle Passge and the other about Movies & Plays.

Which one you think is more interesting?

WRONG!!!!

Actually both courses are equally interesting!

I know, weird!

But Ever Since I got to Rutgers I have felt like I have lost my drive and motivation to be educated!

I have been to 3 different schools in the past 4 years!

It has worn me out a little but I did lose my drive!

Now All of a sudden I am taking these 2 classes to whcich I have not even purchased the book for and have suddenly regained my drive to LEARN more! It's so weird! See, my bank account is sick right now... it's been ill for a couple of weeks now, so I just haven't dropped by to see it and I had to buy 3 books all together... SmH... So I decided to ask my cousin to pay for the book rental at CHEGG.com... which was about $60 for all 3 books for 30 days... But my cousin didn't get back to me until yesterday and I am already taking midterms... Mind you, the classes are a month long, So Since I haven't had the book I have been taking HELLA-NOTES in my "Middle Passgae course" and have been using Wikipedia and other internet sights to read plays and turn in my homework.

Let me TESTIFY real QUICK!

IN BOTH OF THE CLASSES! I have NO BOOKS!

I participate and know what i am talking about MORE THAN EVERYONE IN BOTH CLASSES!!!

It's Crazy yo!!!!

Your boy is a GENIUS!

Both Proffessor LOVE ME and I HAVE NO DAMN BOOK!

I hope I get a B or A on the their midterms yo!!!

You honestly don't need a book You need to learn how to listen and take all the notes you can HEAR! For real College is a BIG ASS MONEY MAKING SCAM!!!

I hope I taught SOMEBODY out their Something!

These professor change like 2 words in the course book and call it a new edition and raise the HELL out of the price! SCAM,SCAM,SCAM!!!!!! I AM UNTO YOU SCAMMERS!!!

RESPECT vs. DISRESPECT...

What It Do FOLKS!!!?

So I was wondering...

If your were disrespected

Just a bit... Is it not Disrespect still?

And if you have not been

disrespected does that mean you are

being respected?

SMH!!!

So my one of my OTHER cousins were disrespected by a boy

And this is one of my cousins that is always telling ppl OFF!

Even ppl who don't deserve it... So at the time she was

SUPPOSEDLY... suppose to tell this boy to whom she was "talking to"

OFF... She didn't..

She said, "she didn't feel disrespected to the point"..

But isn't Disrespect....Direspect..... Fuck the point, periods, and astericks!

IDK!

then on top of that... if she didn't feel disrespected ....then was she respected???

The boy told her OFF and she did nothing..... he wanted her to go to his house and she declined....

IDk... What you all think?